Square Moments

A few things that make me tick: Death Cab for Cutie, trying to be healthy, tattoos, most things pink, my daughter and my second child growing inside of me, nature, photography, love and a multitude of nuances in between.
cm0n-skinnylove:

technicolorgrl:

They aren’t really your friends if the size of your body determines if you feel like you belong or not. 

its not always about them though ^ if youre insecure about yourself you can still feel like you dont belong, regardless of how nice and accepting your friends are. trust me, i have the greatest friends a girl could ask for, but i still feel awkward being the biggest girl around them when we go out. sometimes its all about you and how YOU feel about yourself

Then it’s a greater issue all around and getting skinny isn’t going to be the cure.  If you’re always comparing, you’re never going to think you’re good enough.
I totally understand wanting to lose weight, getting healthy.  I just feel like that reason is so self deprecating and goes against all the good things that should be reasons for losing weight.  

cm0n-skinnylove:

technicolorgrl:

They aren’t really your friends if the size of your body determines if you feel like you belong or not. 

its not always about them though ^ if youre insecure about yourself you can still feel like you dont belong, regardless of how nice and accepting your friends are. trust me, i have the greatest friends a girl could ask for, but i still feel awkward being the biggest girl around them when we go out. sometimes its all about you and how YOU feel about yourself

Then it’s a greater issue all around and getting skinny isn’t going to be the cure.  If you’re always comparing, you’re never going to think you’re good enough.

I totally understand wanting to lose weight, getting healthy.  I just feel like that reason is so self deprecating and goes against all the good things that should be reasons for losing weight.  

(Source: onehundreddayproject)